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Sexy Clowns & a Music Orgy in the East Bay
The tent was situated in the middle of a huge empty lot, no signs or reassurance that I wasn’t about to walk into some American Horror Story scenario. I started the night of the Bohemian Carnival’s 10 year anniversary party rolling around the deserted industrial bay coast of Alameda until I

How to Choose A Dating App in 2016
All the relevant dating apps, and a chart that guides you through all of them easily

The Music at Folsom Street Fair is Pretty Awesome This Year
Along with sex positive performances, exhibitions & parties, the food, the drinks, & the beautiful SF Freaks. There is are some fucking great bands performing as well

The Best Bloody Marys in San Francisco
After the San Francisco Bloody Mary Festival I needed a cold shower. It wasn’t just that some of the cocktails were orgasmic (they were) or that I went to the fest with a head cold and a fever (I did): it was more that the venue was warm and the drinks were spicy and after downing 13 of the city’s best Marys, mama needed to cool down.

10 Secrets of Cal Berkeley’s Campus
The freshman are all moved in and classes have started at my alma mater. Back when I was an undergrad at Cal, I used to give campus tours to the pledges in my sorority and kept it up during the years I worked at Hillel post-graduation. Since it looks like

Flying To New York City on 9/11
“I remember this was being worked on back then. So it was surrounded scaffolding. And days after 9/11 it was just plastered in ‘Have You Seen Me’ fliers. I mean, covered. It was heart breaking. And the smell. It was just like death, everywhere.”

Why Selfie Sticks Will Ruin Your Vacation & Your Life
There are occasions where a selfie stick would allow for a photo that cannot ever be taken again. I can vouch for that: I went to the city of Palmyra some time around the turn of the millennium and I was the only person there. Thus I have no picture